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I was brought up in the full-spin generation. I was taught to make the strongest possible argument in the strongest possible way for my idea, product, or service, and let the buyer beware.
Under no circumstances, they told me, should I reveal any weakness in the product. To do so was to open a door through which the audience or the prospect could drive a truckload of fear, uncertainty and doubt (FUD).
Suppose you’re writing a letter of recommendation. Is it more persuasive to sing the praises of the candidate to the Nth degree, or is it better to sing her praises but also provide an insight into her shortcomings?
It turns out that the latter is more persuasive. It has more credibility. Nobody walks on water. If you want to get the girl a job, it’s better to be fair and balanced. It’s also ethical to practice full disclosure for the next employer.
This does not mean that you bash the candidate. It simply means that you describe your experience, good and bad, in a way that does the greatest good.
Think of the current Direct to Consumer (DTC) ads for pharmaceutical products on TV. We watch the images of couples sitting in separate lion-paw bathtubs gazing at the sun set, while we listen to the sound track whizzing by at almost inaudible speed mentioning horrors such as sterility, madness, seizures, and cardio-myopathy syndrome, which we don’t know anything about (I made it up) but it sounds scary.
Of course, the fine print makes us think twice about taking the drug, but what would we think if we took the drug without being told about side effects?
I’ll tell you how I’d feel. I’d feel like unleashing the wrath of hell on the manufacturers.
So even if you’re selling consulting services, or elective surgery, you gotta be honest about your shortcomings—about what you can and cannot do or promise. You may lose the business this time, but you will definitely earn their respect for being honest, and that means you live to fight another day. If you take the job and screw it up, the client is unlikely to hire you again.
Even worse, when you screw it up they’re likely to tell a whole bunch of other people, and slowly but surely your karma circles in on you, like a pride of lions 0n a wounded wart hog.
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