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		<title>Presentation Training:  Presence of Mind</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I spent last Thursday with Patricia Fripp, a great speech coach and friend of mine.  We were at the National Speakers Association, New Jersey Chapter. I can’t get her out of my mind.  She is a presence! Someone with  presence makes you pay attention. You don’t have to work hard to listen to them or watch them.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="wp-caption-dt">I spent last Thursday with <strong><a href="http://www.fripp.com/">Patricia Fripp</a></strong>, a great <strong><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/services/executive-speech-coaching">speech coach</a></strong> and friend of mine.  We were at the <strong><a href="http://www.nsaspeaker.org/" target="_blank">National Speakers Association</a></strong>, New Jersey Chapter. I can’t get her out of my mind.  She is a presence!</p>
<p>Someone with  <em>presence</em> makes you <strong><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/presentation-techniques-8-tools-for-getting-and-keeping-attention-20070219">pay attention</a></strong>. You don’t have to work hard to listen to them or watch them.  In fact, you can’t help being engaged by them.  Fripp is one of these people.   </p>
<p>She does it in at least two ways:  intellectual and emotional. </p>
<p>Fripp says interesting things in interesting ways, such as, “The enemy of the speaker is sameness.” </p>
<p>Then she tells you why she phrased it the way she did.  She will say that the last word in your spoken sentence should pack the punch.</p>
<p>That’s a powerful thought, one that will change the way I talk.</p>
<p>To be a presence in someone else’s mind on a substantive level is a good thing.  It means you have made them think, <img class="alignright" title="Barbara Walters" src="http://rohrbachlibrary.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/barbara-walters-affair.jpg" alt="" width="140" height="161" />aroused their curiosity, and stimulated further dialogue.</p>
<p>Great conversationalists, (I am thinking of <strong><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barbara_Walters">Barbara Walters</a></strong>, <strong><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leonard_Lopate">Leonard Lopate</a></strong>,  and <strong><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dick_Cavett">Dick Cavett</a></strong>) can carry on a dialogue on a wide range of topics.  In other words, they can be <em>present</em> in almost any discussion.</p>
<p>There is more to presence than animal magnetism.  We take for granted intellectual presence, yet it is the currency of success for many of our most accomplished colleagues. </p>
<p>Read the first blog in this series:  <strong><a href="http://www.executivespeechcoachnj.com/20090918-presentation-skills-stay-tuned-for-a-month-of-presence/">Presentation Skills:  Stay Tuned for a Month of Presence</a></strong>.</p>
<p><em><span style="color: #808080;"><em><span style="color: #808080;">Sims Wyeth is a </span></em><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/services/executive-speech-coaching"><em><span style="color: #808080;">private speech coach</span></em></a><em><span style="color: #808080;"> in Montclair, NJ specializing in </span></em><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/services/executive-speech-coaching"><em><span style="color: #808080;">executive speech coaching</span></em></a><em><span style="color: #808080;"> and </span></em><em><span style="color: #808080;"><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/services/public-speaking-training"><span style="color: #888888;">public speaking training</span></a></span></em><em><span style="color: #808080;"> in order to give accomplished people the knowledge and skill they need to become accomplished speakers. Learn more <a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/"><span style="color: #888888;">public speaking tips</span></a></span></em><em><span style="color: #808080;"> at </span></em><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/"><em><span style="color: #808080;">www.SimsWyeth.com</span></em></a><em><span style="color: #808080;">.</span></em></span></em></p>

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		<title>Persuasion and Influence:  Competing for Internal Resources</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:27:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Suppose you work for a large pharma company that historically makes its profits from blockbuster primary care products, and you work in oncology. When you present your plans to the senior people, it&#8217;s evident that they don&#8217;t understand your specialty, and what&#8217;s worse, they don&#8217;t seem to care. They grew up in the company selling [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-185" style="float: left; margin: 10px; border: 0px;" title="davidgoliath" src="http://www.executivespeechcoachny.com/wp-content/uploads/davidgoliath.jpg" alt="davidgoliath" width="112" height="173" />Suppose you work for a large pharma company that historically makes its profits from blockbuster primary care products, and you work in oncology.</p>
<p>When you present your plans to the senior people, it&#8217;s evident that they don&#8217;t understand your specialty, and what&#8217;s worse, they don&#8217;t seem to care.</p>
<p>They grew up in the company selling the old stuff. They still have their eyes on the big prize&#8211;the next big thing&#8211;and they hardly notice what&#8217;s going on in the more remote corners of the company.</p>
<p>How can you <strong><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/20070219-presentation-techniques-8-tools-for-getting-and-keeping-attention">get them to pay attention</a></strong>, take an interest, and develop an understanding of the complexities and importance of the oncology market?</p>
<p>More selfishly, how can you preserve and grow the franchise within the company?</p>
<p>1. Develop a demographic and psychographic understanding of senior management. Who are they? What do they think and do now? And why do they think and do as they do?</p>
<p>2. Define your goals. Where do you want them to be when your campaign is over? Don&#8217;t assume you&#8217;re going to convert them to a drastically different point of view. Can you &#8220;de-activate&#8221; some of their attitudes and beliefs? Can you educate them? Can you raise the shadow of a doubt in their minds that they may be missing something?</p>
<p>3. Develop sticky messages. Sticky messages are messages that are simple, emotional, and filled with surprising specifics. They are also vivid&#8211;they paint pictures in the mind of the listener, and they most often come in the form of stories.</p>
<p>4. Develop your proof statements. Make sure that any claims you make about the value of the oncology franchise are credible.</p>
<p>5. And finally, seek out opportunities to get your points across in a powerful manner.</p>
<p>Presenting is the number one tool of <strong><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/20080617-persuasive-public-speaking">influence and persuasion</a></strong>, because when you get people in one room at one time to think about one thing, you have the greatest chance you&#8217;ll ever get to change their minds and move them to action.</p>
<p>David slew Goliath, and small pharma franchises can earn the attention and respect large enterprises with the right combination of messaging and personal impact.</p>
<div><em><span style="color: #808080;"><em><span style="color: #808080;">Sims Wyeth is a </span></em><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/services/executive-speech-coaching"><em><span style="color: #808080;">private speech coach</span></em></a><em><span style="color: #808080;"> in Montclair, NJ specializing in </span></em><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/services/executive-speech-coaching"><em><span style="color: #808080;">executive speech coaching</span></em></a><em><span style="color: #808080;"> and </span></em><em><span style="color: #808080;"><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/services/public-speaking-training"><span style="color: #888888;">public speaking training</span></a></span></em><em><span style="color: #808080;"> in order to give accomplished people the knowledge and skill they need to become accomplished speakers. Learn more <a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/"><span style="color: #888888;">public speaking tips</span></a></span></em><em><span style="color: #808080;"> at </span></em><a href="http://www.simswyeth.com/"><em><span style="color: #808080;">www.SimsWyeth.com</span></em></a><em><span style="color: #808080;">.</span></em></span></em></div>
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